I think that you need to q, q, q, q, experiment and q some more. The only real way is to cook a sh$t load and try different things, take notes for yourself, read the brethren and q some more. Listening to everyone's way or style of cooking and trying to gleen tips from them, and some of these may be very subtle, but make a huge difference in the way your q will turn out and taste. Q Q Q Q Q and Q some more.!!!
Being a beginner smoker I think that the biggest myth was that I could take a recipe straight out of a book or off the internet, follow it to the letter, and like it. Peoples tastes are very different. It took me six tries to get my ribs the way I really like them but well worth the effort. This was very frustrating at first. When I do a smoke now I always fix something that I know I will like but on a second rack put on something new to try. The tips on this site have been a big help for my ribs. But it wasn't a single plug and play recipe that I used. It was bits and pieces of of recipes that others have tried.
Words of Wisdom right there!
I have seen folks stress out for days over something as simple as "membrane OFF or ON", when it is just so simple to cook two slabs and see for themselves. And both will be "Good Eats".
TIM