Here's a clue. I want to preface this with "it might sound harsh, but I am just being honest." I'm a teacher. When we problem solve students that aren't successful in school we talk about two kinds of kids... "can't do" and "won't do." (And this is after quality instruction - my school has won awards. We were just given one today.) The can't do kids are the ones that have special needs and simply can't do what is asked. The won't do kids are the ones that have the ability to do what we teach, but, for some reason, don't. You are a won't do. You ask for lots of advice, but you won't do it. You've got multiple excuses and talk yourself out of taking the advice. That is what is frustrating and that is what ticks some people off. I'll be honest with you... it is really aggravating to see all of the solid advice given to you and you just toss it away. I have learned things from the responses given to your questions, but you ignore or talk away the knowledge... your loss. Trust the brethren, 99% of what is said here is solid advice based on years of experience. They are dispensing it for free. Take it to heart and try it. If it doesn't work, state your observations and procedure and ask if the experts notice something and take their damn advice! Again, sorry if this sounds harsh. Honestly, I want you to be successful. I hope you get called to the Shade Tree, and I hope you GC. But, that won't happen until you start listening to the answers to the questions that you ask.