I read through this post back in the summer of '14, when I had just finished grad school and was catering BBQ on the side. I took the plunge into teaching for two years and have come up against a wall there. I just re-read the thread, including the new two years of posts because I'm now about to pull the trigger on a legitimate catering business, with all the T's and I's taken care of...licensing, legal, etc.
First, I am extremely sorry to hear about the family stuff. That is a bummer, and more than any other factor in your thread, gave me pause about doing a service business.
Second, your business side trials and tribulations, rather than moving me away from wanting to do it, have just made me want to be more prepared. They helped the dreamer in me be a bit more mature. I was about a second away from making a deposit with Tyler on a cooker, and your thread made me realize it was too soon (well, not to get in line, but to make that expense without other details taken care of.) I can't simply hope that finances will fill in the emergency gaps. My wife thanks you for this pause. That said, I'm about to sit down and do the meticulous job of re-writing, re-thinking, and re-strategizing funding so that my startup is responsible and fully thought through.
Third, I am amazed at both the trials of opening, and the incredible turnaround in business once you opened. There are definitely a few things that have come out of your thread (Shirley being the most important.) In fact, the reason I went back to the thread was that I remembered your indoor exhaust requirements. I wanted to see if I could figure out what I needed while I waited for my HD to get back to me on a possible indoor cooker. I've decided that outdoor is much simpler. Anyway, enough about that. Your thread is great, and I wish I had chimed in 2 years ago, but I'm really glad you kept the thread up.